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When Are We Old?
And what is this thing called old age?
Let us never know what old age is. Let us know the happiness time brings, not count the years. Ausonius
But! But! But! [I hear people tell me]
“We must have a specific number for what specific age is labeled old age!”
I guess we need to know people’s ages like we know the ages of Old Ironsides, the Acropolis, Old Masters, etc.
For me — instead of asking how old a person is — the better question is:
Why are we so obsessed with people’s ages?
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